A Day in the Life of a Rochester Wedding Officiant: Three Ceremonies at The Highline
Three Love Stories, One Day
When Keri asked if I’d like to officiate three back-to-back weddings in one day in Rochester, the words of the legendary (wait for it) Barney Stinson popped into my head: Challenge accepted.
As a wedding officiant, I usually spend time getting to know my couples well before their big day. That connection allows me to craft a custom wedding ceremony that feels deeply personal and tailored to their love story. This time was different. I had never met any of the couples, knew very little about them, and still needed to create something meaningful enough to mark one of the biggest moments of their lives. No pressure at all, right?
Photo by Julia Hart
Why The Highline Is a Stunning Rochester Wedding Venue
All three wedding ceremonies took place at the spectacular Highline venue in downtown Rochester. The Highline is clear evidence of what a brilliant idea, hard work, and thoughtful management can bring to life. Walking through the details with the fantastic venue coordinator, Alyssa, including music cues and processional timing, took away any worries about how the day would unfold. Outstanding wedding vendors like Julia Hart and XXX Florist helped bring everything together beautifully.
Meeting each couple for the first time was surprisingly easy. Within minutes we had a natural rapport. After confirming last-minute details—and the always-important name pronunciations—I focused on accomplishing what I always strive for as an officiant: making sure the couple feels completely supported and at ease during their ceremony.
Each Rochester wedding ceremony had its own mix of heartfelt moments, smiles, and a few happy tears. After the pronouncement, the kiss, and a joyful recessional, the marriage licenses were signed, and each couple moved on to enjoy a short and sweet reception in the main ballroom.
Photo by Julia Hart
When Wedding Vows Don’t Go as Planned
There was only one small hiccup. I had been told that one couple had written their own wedding vows. So when we reached that part of the ceremony and I introduced their personal vows, they both looked at me wide-eyed and said they had none. And I, of course, had not prepared vows either.
Running purely on adrenaline and years of officiating experience, I created vows on the spot. I even invited their guests into the moment, asking them to promise to support the couple throughout their marriage. It turned into one of the most memorable parts of the day—and honestly, the vows may have turned out even better than if I’d spent weeks writing them.
The day was fast, fun, and filled with love.
Challenge accepted. Challenge accomplished.
Planning a wedding in Rochester, Buffalo, or the Finger Lakes?
If you’re looking for a wedding officiant who creates personal, couple-centric ceremonies, I’d love to connect. Reach out through Flower City Ceremonies to start planning a ceremony that feels like you.
